Frequently Asked Questions
How long has Arlington Friends House been a cooperative?
About nine years.
Are you active politically?
As individuals we subscribe to a number of causes, make contributions and do
volunteer work, but we don't have an affiliation as a household.
Does the house host outside groups?
We sometimes hold events here that our residents are involved in book
groups, potlucks, committee meetings, writing workshops, singing groups,
etc.
Are all members Quakers?
No. The number has varied over time. Currently two of our six residents
are Friends.
Do you ever have people live with you short-term?
Yes, occasionally, if we have space while we're looking for long-term
housemates. We also have a guest room where we've put up travellers and
friends of the household.
Do residents have guests overnight?
Yes. Relatives, out-of-town guests, and significant others are welcome, as
long as we let each other know about visitors in advance or they are regulars.
How do you decide practical questions like policies or furnishings?
We discuss them in house meetings, using the model of Friends Meetings for
Business.
What is the Friends model?
In practice, it resembles consensus, but with a spiritual basis. Quakers
take it on faith that we're meant to work together rather than against one
another: that we're seeking a higher good, not just individual comfort. In
discussion we listen thoughtfully; everyone is heard. We need to be willing
to set aside personal preferences and throw our support behind what seems
best for the community.
Do you vote after discussion?
No. If an issue really divides us, then clearly we aren't ready to move
ahead. We need to wait and seek more clarity. However, this problem is
rare. People who choose to live here tend to want the best for each other.
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