Frequently Asked Questions

How long has Arlington Friends House been a cooperative?
About nine years.
Are you active politically?
As individuals we subscribe to a number of causes, make contributions and do volunteer work, but we don't have an affiliation as a household.
Does the house host outside groups?
We sometimes hold events here that our residents are involved in book groups, potlucks, committee meetings, writing workshops, singing groups, etc.
Are all members Quakers?
No. The number has varied over time. Currently two of our six residents are Friends.
Do you ever have people live with you short-term?
Yes, occasionally, if we have space while we're looking for long-term housemates. We also have a guest room where we've put up travellers and friends of the household.
Do residents have guests overnight?
Yes. Relatives, out-of-town guests, and significant others are welcome, as long as we let each other know about visitors in advance or they are regulars.
How do you decide practical questions like policies or furnishings?
We discuss them in house meetings, using the model of Friends Meetings for Business.
What is the Friends model?
In practice, it resembles consensus, but with a spiritual basis. Quakers take it on faith that we're meant to work together rather than against one another: that we're seeking a higher good, not just individual comfort. In discussion we listen thoughtfully; everyone is heard. We need to be willing to set aside personal preferences and throw our support behind what seems best for the community.
Do you vote after discussion?
No. If an issue really divides us, then clearly we aren't ready to move ahead. We need to wait and seek more clarity. However, this problem is rare. People who choose to live here tend to want the best for each other.
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