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FreQUENTLY Asked Questions

How long has Arlington Friends House been a cooperative?
About twenty years.

Are you active politically?
Most members of AFH support many progressive causes at different levels, including financial contributions, organizing and volunteer work.  However, we don’t have an affiliation as a household.

Are all members Quakers?
No; the number has varied over time.  Currently two of our  residents are Friends.

Does the house host outside groups?
Often!  We enjoy holding events here that our residents are involved in — book groups, potlucks, committee meetings, writing workshops, singing groups, etc.

Do you ever have people live with you short-term?
Once in a blue moon, if we happen to have space while we’re looking for long-term housemates.  

Do residents have guests overnight?
Yes.  Relatives, out-of-town guests, and significant others are welcome, as long as we let each other know about visitors in advance.  We can use our parlor to put up guests.

Does the house include pets?
Yes, one dog.  (No cats; some of us have allergies.)

How do you decide things like food policies, or furnishings?
We discuss them in house meetings, using the model of Friends Meeting for Business. 
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What is the Friends model?
It resembles consensus, but with a spiritual basis.  Quakers take it on faith that we’re meant to work together rather than against each other: that we’re seeking a higher good, not just individual comfort.  In discussion we listen thoughtfully; everyone is heard.  The goal is not expressing personal preferences, but finding what's best for the entire community.  

Is there a leader?
We rotate the job of facilitating, or "clerking."  The clerk keeps the meeting on track, invites each member to speak in turn, and takes notes. 

Do you vote after discussion?
No.  If an issue really divides us, then we aren’t ready to move ahead.  We need to wait and seek more clarity.  However, this problem is rare.  People who choose to live here tend to want the best for each other. 
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